Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA)

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What PDA is

Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) is a profile within the autism spectrum where a person experiences high anxiety and an extreme need to resist or avoid everyday demands.
It is not defiance in the traditional sense — the avoidance is driven by anxiety and a need for control.

Understanding PDA as part of the autism spectrum helps families and schools provide calm, flexible support rather than confrontation.

Related guidance

  • Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)
  • Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)
  • Anxiety Disorders
  • Social Communication Difficulties
  • SEN Wellbeing

    Signs and characteristics

    People with PDA may:

    • avoid or refuse ordinary requests, even enjoyable ones

    • use distraction, negotiation or withdrawal to manage anxiety

    • appear socially able but struggle with control and unpredictability

    • experience sudden mood changes or shutdowns

    • show strong interests or imaginative play

    • find transitions and authority difficult

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    Types of Pathological Demand Causes and relationship to autism

    PDA is understood as part of the autism spectrum, not a separate diagnosis.
    It shares traits with autism and anxiety disorders, but avoidance is its defining feature.
    Factors may include:

    • differences in brain development and sensory processing

    • difficulty managing uncertainty or loss of control

    • heightened emotional sensitivity

    Learn how PDA relates to autism
    Understand the overlap between PDA, autism and anxiety.

    Getting assessed and diagnosed

    Currently, PDA is not a stand-alone clinical diagnosis under DSM-5 or ICD-11, but professionals may recognise a “PDA profile of autism.”

    Assessment involves:

    • developmental history and family interviews

    • observation of avoidance behaviours and triggers

    • autism assessment tools used alongside behavioural analysis

    Professionals involved may include psychologists, paediatricians and speech and language therapists.

    Support in education

    Children and young people with PDA benefit from:

    • low-arousal, flexible environments

    • reduced direct demands and use of indirect requests

    • collaborative goal-setting rather than instructions

    • sensory breaks and calm-down spaces

    • emotionally intelligent staff who understand anxiety-based behaviour

    Traditional reward–punishment systems often worsen distress.
    Support should be built around trust, autonomy and emotional safety.

    If needs are complex, an EHCP can formalise adaptations and therapeutic input.

    Helpful approaches and strategies

    Effective strategies include:

    • Collaborative communication (e.g. giving choices, using humour or role-play)

    • Predictability — visual timetables and gentle transitions

    • Emotional literacy and self-regulation support

    • Therapy such as CBT, counselling or play-based approaches for anxiety

    • Parent training and specialist PDA guidance

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